There are several things that characterize my friendship with Nate mainly longevity. We have been friends for the past 20 years. He is the one friend i have shared my entire life with. This past summer we took a road trip together half way cross country and had the time of our lives. We are not perfect friends but we are faithful to each other. Looking back on the Godwilling first half of our lives i see that the Lord planted us together to weather the storms of life. Driving on the open road vacates the mind at times and allows you to see more clearly things of your past. As we drove through the Desert to Texass that is what happend in our souls last summer. Our friendship was deepened if that is possible. The problem we have had our entire lives has been our sexes...the fact that my chromosomes consist of XX and Nate's Xy has been the alleged flaw of our friendship. We actually do not see our diversity as a "problem;" consequently, they are awed and say they have never encountered such a novalty such as Nate and myself. Our "true feelings" have always been tested by both friend and foe. My girl friends always question the "emotional" wisehood, although, Nate's girl friends have always had a different problem...just me. This perceived problem (our gender), always re-awakens itself when we encounter new peoples. Consequently, when Nate and I went to Texas we were oddly shocked to have no negative reactions from the cowboy christians. Their reaction to us was thorougly loving and we loved them. Quite frankly Nate and i had more run-ins with each other than we did others...
(We narrowed it down to all the time we spent pent up in BAM ,Nate's car, together.) The commonly known saying, The Blind leading the Blind, "has often been attributed to the combined reasoning of Nate and Meagan (which we have so often relied on while compasing on our lives). Yet, we are still alive...which is good; though there will always be those categorized wouls that are ruffled by Nate and I being best friends...but at some point they will just die and be over it.

Summer was one adventure after another...we never really had a sure plan and we embraced "flying by the seat of our pants" to the fullest and thanked God for every take off. However, at the end of our adventure, i did come to the sad realization that this would probably be the last great adventure of Nate and Meagan. We are both beginning very new and very BIG chapters of our lives. I'm graduating from college in a few short months and have severals ideas of where i might be in the world, and Nate will be moving to the other side of things (east coast). But, i am writing this mainly to establish the fact that the Lord has graced me with Nate. Trusting God with a soul that you love almost as much as your own has been a constant prod to the gospel over my entire life. God has taught me to wait on him to answer prayer...to love even when i'm not love...and to believe that Love truly does conquor all. That last phrase may itch the cheezy chin of many...but it has been so real in our frienship. Nate is the one friend that i never had to ask God for and the one i have prayed for the most. The precious thing is that Nate and i have both layed down our lives for each other... We will be friends for all of eternity, we may not always live in the same state or country and an era is probably ending, but we have been so blessed by God through each other for a life time...
Summer was one adventure after another...we never really had a sure plan and we embraced "flying by the seat of our pants" to the fullest and thanked God for every take off. However, at the end of our adventure, i did come to the sad realization that this would probably be the last great adventure of Nate and Meagan. We are both beginning very new and very BIG chapters of our lives. I'm graduating from college in a few short months and have severals ideas of where i might be in the world, and Nate will be moving to the other side of things (east coast). But, i am writing this mainly to establish the fact that the Lord has graced me with Nate. Trusting God with a soul that you love almost as much as your own has been a constant prod to the gospel over my entire life. God has taught me to wait on him to answer prayer...to love even when i'm not love...and to believe that Love truly does conquor all. That last phrase may itch the cheezy chin of many...but it has been so real in our frienship. Nate is the one friend that i never had to ask God for and the one i have prayed for the most. The precious thing is that Nate and i have both layed down our lives for each other... We will be friends for all of eternity, we may not always live in the same state or country and an era is probably ending, but we have been so blessed by God through each other for a life time...
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